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When Being 'The Strong One' Stops Working: Perimenopause and the End of the Strategy

Tamera Broughton
Jun 1, 2026
Being the strong one worked, until perimenopause changed the conditions. This blog explores why midlife hormonal shifts hit harder for women with a trauma history, why the old strategies stop working, and what an integrated approach to perimenopausal mental health can look like.

Hyper-Independence Isn't Who You Are. It's What You Learnt.

Tamera Broughton
Jun 1, 2026
You learnt to be the strong one early, and the world never stopped rewarding you for it. This blog explores why hyper-independence is not a personality trait but an adaptive response rooted in attachment, schema theory, and nervous system patterning, and what genuine change can feel like.

The Science Behind EMDR: Why It Works On Trauma The Way It Does

Tamera Broughton
May 28, 2026
You can understand exactly why you react the way you do, and still react that way. EMDR works on that gap.

Is an EMDR Immersive Right for You?

Tamera Broughton
May 25, 2026
An EMDR immersive in a big commitment and not right for everybody. Here we talk about what an immersive is, who it tends to suit and when it might not be the right moment.

How to Know You're Ready for an EMDR Immersive

Tamera Broughton
May 19, 2026
Readiness is not a test you pass. It is a set of tools you gather. And you can start gathering them today.

You're Not Overreacting: Understanding Anxious Attachment Spirals in Relationships
Apr 27, 2026

Self-Care Planner

Tamera Broughton
Apr 24, 2026
Here is our self-care planner, to help you plan for meaningful self-care.

What does it actually mean to be trauma-informed? | EMDR Schema Therapy Thornbury Daylesford
Apr 23, 2026


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